There is no doubt that men are a mystery when it comes to relationships and figuring out what makes a man fall in love with a woman. A man will be attracted to a woman initially for her qualities such as her personality, how attracted he is to her physically, her intelligence and her appearance.
These traits play a huge role in terms of the initial attraction but there are other factors which also play a role in terms of who he will ultimately fall head-over-heels in love with.
Timing is also a big factor in terms of whether or not a man is ready for a serious relationship and allows himself to get involved with a woman that he is attracted to. When it comes to what makes a man fall in love, it is not one quality but rather many qualities that a man finds desirable in a woman and this paves the way to him falling deeply in love.
If a man feels good when he is around a woman then he will want to spend more time with her then with someone who doesn’t make him feel good to be with. Men feel fulfilled and will bond with a woman when they know that they are making them happy. It is very important for a man to make this connection with a woman because if he doesn’t, then love will not follow.
There isn’t one reason as to what makes a man fall for one woman over another but rather many reasons. First and foremost, a man has to be attracted to a woman physically. He will be attracted to her for the way she kisses and how compatible they are when they are together.
A man will fall for one woman over others because of the way she makes him feel. If he is feels good about himself when he is around her and she fulfills his emotional needs, then he will choose her over other women who don’t possess those qualities.
He has to feel like his life would be incomplete without her so he feels compelled to make her part of his future by asking for her hand in marriage. This has a lot to do with timing and what stage he is in his life in terms of wanting a serious relationship.
When a man is willing to do anything to make a certain woman happy, and bend over backwards to do so, then you know that he is in love and has made his choice.
Nuture His Protective Side
Another point to consider is that men are driven by their instincts one of which is the desire to protect or nuture. Showing your weaker side will cause him to want to protect you and this in turn will make him feel good about himself.
You don’t have to appear helpless, but showing that you can be vulnerable to situations will help nuture his protective instincts towards you. If he sees that you appreciate this quality in him by thanking him when you need help, this in turn will cause him to draw closer to you and you only.
When a man feels comfortable sharing his feelings with his girlfriend, then he might be moving to a deeper more meaningful level of a relationship. A man will fall in love with a woman because he feels comfortable being around her and he also knows instinctively that he can share his inner most feelings with her.
A man falls in love when he knows that he can confide in woman and that she will support him and won’t judge what he is has to say no matter how bad or good the news is. A man will fall in love with a woman because he knows that she is first of all, comfortable with her own feelings so he knows that he can share his inner most feelings with her and that will give him a sense of security.
Once a man has reached this level of trust in a relationship, he will want to be with his girlfriend all the time. He will long for her embrace and will want to hold her in his arms. He will recognize that this relationship is different from any other relationship he has had before and may not realize that he is falling deeply in love with this lady.
What makes a man fall in love also has to do with giving him his freedom and space. Don’t try to tie him down because a lot of men don’t want a serious relationship for this reason. Instead, allow him to follow his passions whether he includes you in them or not and don’t feel insecure about this.
Keep in mind that a man is his own person and show respect for that. Having time apart will allow you to do the things that you like to do with your friends but it will ultimately draw your man closer to you. If he sees that you are independent and not clingy and that you have a life of your own, he will find this to be a very attractive quality in you and this will cause him to want to be closer to you.
Remember that any man is allowed to have secrets so don’t invade his personal space unless he wants you to by inviting you in and confiding in you.
By giving him his personal space, not only will he thank you for it, but he will want to spend more time with you especially if you are not always available when he asked to see you. This will make you more interesting to him.
If you want to know what makes a man fall in love then one thing you have to do is be true to yourself. When you are dating a guy, don’t go along with everything that he wants to do just to please him when meanwhile you may really dislike doing some of the things that he suggests that you do together.
I’m not saying that you shouldn’t try new things because the two of you will share your passions but just don’t pretend to like doing something just for the sake of going along with it. Instead, try to find things that you both enjoy doing together. This will strengthen your relationship and help you bond together
If you are not honest with any guy that you date and you try to be something that you are not, then sooner or later he is going to discover that you have not been upfront with him about who you are and the things that you would rather do together and this could destroy your relationship for good.
It’s far better to be honest and not try to be something you’re not with your boyfriend so that both of you will find out just how compatible you really are and he will admire this quality in you, otherwise whatever he thought he was feeling for you may quickly change.
Being true to yourself and not pretending to be someone your not, will cause him to fall in love with you for who you are and those are the qualities that you want him to see in you.
A man will be open to love when he knows that he has met the right woman and this is the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with so there will be no doubt in his mind. Keep in mind that you can’t force someone to fall in love with you, it just takes time. You have to let nature takes its course so that he can get to know who you are and how much fun you are to be with.
As I have mentioned above, men are not very good at expressing their emotions when it comes to how they feel about a woman. Men by nature are not big on talking about how they feel so we have to look for other ways to determine if a man is falling in love with a woman.
If a man is truly falling in love then you will be able to tell by how he is behaving or acting around you. Some indicators would be….
1. He is willing to bend over backwards and go out of this way to do whatever you want. If he willingly put your needs ahead of his own they you know that he is falling for you. This relates back to what I had talked about in my opening paragraph about doing anything to make you happy because for men this is an important connection for a man to make with a woman.
2. He doesn’t mind giving up time with the guys because he knows that he will be able to spend the time with you.
3. You know he is falling in love when he starts to take a genuine interest in the things that you are interested in and wants to involve himself in those activities too.
4. He wants to be around you all the time even when you haven’t planned anything together.
5. When you talk, he listens intently to what you have to say because he want to make sure that nothing is upsetting you, and if it is he wants to help you resolve it so you are happy again.
6. Another way that you will know when your man is falling in love with you is he won’t be able to keep his hands off of you. He will be showing affection towards you whenever he is around you and he will just want to be close to you so you can feel his touch.
These are just some of the indicators that a man might be falling in love with you. You’ll know when your man has fallen in love when he starts exhibiting these behaviors.