Have you just recently broken up with your ex, and you are now wondering “how can I get back together with my ex“?  You may want to win your ex back immediately, and rest assure that this is a common feeling that a lot of people experience.  However, you have to be careful how you go about doing this because you could just make things worse instead of better.

 

After the break-up you might find yourself falling into an emotionally depressed state, and you may be wondering what you should do.  You first reaction may be to call or text your ex and beg him or her to take you back right away.  But is this really going to make things better?  Rather than improve the situation, what it will probably do is make your situation far worse, causing your ex to run further away.  

 

What you should do at this point is actually the exact opposite of what you are feeling.  If you feel like calling your ex, then whatever you don’t!  Do you just feel like staying inside all day and crying your eyes out?  Don’t!  Instead, follow these three steps, and you will have the answer that you need to the age old question that is “How do I get back together with my ex?”

First and foremost, you need to accept the fact that the breakup has happened.  Tell your ex that you are okay with it so that it allows the ‘moving on’ process to begin.  I know this will be very hard to say, but it is something you just have to do if you ultimately want to get your ex back. 

 

By doing this, it will eliminate a large amount of the stress and tension that is being experienced by all.  Your ex will need time to think about the relationship, and this will also give you time to consider what your options are too. 

 

During this separation period, if your ex comes to the realization that he or she still loves you, then they will endeavor to find a way to get back together with you. 

For the time being, do not make any effort to contact your ex.  You need to cut communication off with him or her for the time being so that there can be some ‘thinking time.’  This may seem counterintuitive at first, but by doing so you are sending a signal to your ex that you have already moved on and that you are doing just fine. 

 

 

This will allow him or her to think about the relationship that has ended, and how they feel about it and how much they valued it.  It will also allow them to have some time to miss you again.  When you can separate yourself from your ex, and you give yourself some time to calm your nerves, that will be the best time to let them realize just how important you were to them.  

 

 

Once you have successfully complete the first two steps, you can start to planning on when you should meet, where you should meet, and also what you will say when you do meet up again with your ex.  This meeting will allow you to get a much better understanding of whether or not your ex still loves you, and also if it appears depending on what is said and how the meeting goes, if there is any chance that you and your ex will be able to get back together. 

 

 

How to get back together with your ex can be a little more complicated than the three steps that I have outline above depending on what your reasons were for breaking up in the first place, however, they are a good starting point and will improve your chances of winning your ex back forever.